Chaoticsoulzzz · Relationship

Ghosting: Side effect of Abandonment Issues

I have spoken to multiple men on dating apps and have shamelessly ghosted them. Some of them were really the good one’s too. There were days when I gave it a lot of thought, “Why am I ghosting these guys?” The only response I got from the inner voice was “Abandonment Issues”.


I have always had issues with being abandoned since I was 14 – dad to first love, there have been too many men who left me alone. In some ways, I think this is my method to overcome it, but it’s a toxic one. The reason for it being toxic is, “I don’t have the guilt of abandoning anyone.”

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