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Ashmita Chatterjee is a Creative Writer/Blogger from Mumbai. She is an Enthusiast, Straight Forward girl who has found joy in Writing Blogs. Ashmita is a Loud Creator of Amazing Blogs, Short Stories and Erotica at Chaoticsoulzzz! She started her blog in 2011. When Ashmita is not being very busy, she can be found Writing, Reading, Eating, or Recklessly Travelling with her loved ones. She is known by the name of @chaoticsoulzzz on her Twitter and Instagram.
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Hi Ashmita:
First, and I mean this sincerely, from my POV, you have a very pretty face. And, my male opinion means nothing until you embrace yourself. That game show is appalling, like any other dating/matchmaking “unreality” show out there.
How shallow are these people? I’ve met many “beautiful people” who were absolutely the most horrible of individuals inside. If you’re not wealthy, aging happens. The other facade wrinkles up, Dad bods take over, metabolism slows down. What are they then? Most like the same horrible people they have always been, which is not an attractive quality for me, and I assume you as well.
You’ve got your writing skills, intelligence, dedication to your passion, and most likely so much more that doesn’t appear on this blog. A lot to be proud of. I hope you are.
Last thing: take the risk: if you find a guy who attracts you on a deeper level (forgetting the looks for a bit. Attraction is a key factor), ask them out! Meet for beverages, breakfast, or lunch. Plan to take a walk and invite them. Whatever. Take what control you can.
My knowledge of Indian culture and dating is limited, gained through TV, movies, or the acquaintances I have from India. But, before you say “No” to the idea for whatever reason, try what remains in your comfort zone. Then ramp it up. Take that risk. The only failure is not trying at all.
Good luck
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