I, me and myself: Self Love #AtoZChallenge – Day 9

Day 9  | Letter: I

Some people feel I am ‘Self-obsessed’, ‘Self-absorbed’, ‘Self-everything’ and they also consider all these things as a negative trait. I have been a ‘giving’ person all my life and even now I am a ‘giving’ person when it comes to my loved ones. It isn’t my mistake if a lot of people do not exist in my loved-ones list.

After my break-up from a 3-year old relationship, I was all shattered and a mess. A mess that made me really sick and depressed, even more. However, with a lot of efforts and self-control, I finally got over him. I always knew I would get over him but I was unsure as to how much time will it take. Thanks to my Zodiac Traits that are so strong in me, that I was successful in the ‘Out of Sight, Out of Mind’ strategy. The day I came out of the entire relationship thing and getting over, I realised how important it is to love myself. Self-love is what was missing for almost 3 years and more.

I told myself, “Mita, you have to start loving Mita.” That was the day I realised how important it is to have the ‘I, me and myself’ plan in place.

These days, I am all about me and my loved ones. Loving me is something I had forgotten to do post my relationship. I consider this phase as I being ‘reborn’ and I have to start taking care of myself as I used to do.

Apart from my mom, brother and best friend there is one more person who has helped me come out of my miseries – Lisa Concepcion. Her videos are fresh and they certainly helped me get out of the sad part of my life.

Her YouTube channel is mentioned below:


So yes, I am all about I, me and myself and I am not going to change that for the longest period now.

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Published by Chaotic Soul

Ashmita Chatterjee is a Creative Writer/Blogger from Mumbai. She is an Enthusiast, Straight Forward girl who has found joy in Writing Blogs. Ashmita is a Loud Creator of Amazing Blogs, Short Stories and Erotica at Chaoticsoulzzz! She started her blog in 2011. When Ashmita is not being very busy, she can be found Writing, Reading, Eating, or Recklessly Travelling with her loved ones. She is known by the name of @chaoticsoulzzz on her Twitter and Instagram.

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