We all have spent Valentine’s Day with or without a real Date. It is pretty much just another day but for some of us, it is a great day of love. I respect all the opinions on this. I love being loved and I did enjoy my share of Valentine’s Day with a Date (which is 2 years in a row, that’s it), and this year I am going to be single.

You know what, I have a little bit of problems with Valentine’s Day; because, that was the day I lost the most important man of my life, but yes I believe in love of all sorts. I have no problem with love; it is just men whom I am a little upset with. This includes all kind of men – inclusive of my family and friends and very special friends too. I am just keeping myself away from all sorts of men for a few years until I find the one who would be the Mr. Imperfectly Perfect. I may come up with a post with all the qualities I expect my Mr. Imperfectly Perfect man to have. (Comment below, if you think I should write something about this)

I have been Single for 23 years before I met the ‘Ex’ Confused Soul and this year again I am privileged to be Single.

Hence, I am taking the opportunity to discuss the Expectations VS Reality: Singles on Valentine’s Day. I feel, we all love reading these kind of write-ups.

Disclaimer: This post is not written to offend anyone. If I am offending anyone, I would like to apologize in advance. However, you can close the post at this moment, without reading further.


Expectation: ((Like a Bawse)) I don’t care about this day! It’s a casual day…

Reality: Can all these people stop celebrating all the ‘flower day’, ‘chocolate day’ a week before Valentines’ and make me miss all the chocolates I could have got!!! Please!


Expectation: Partying all night with all your single best friend(s) and having a blast.

Reality: Sitting in front of your laptop and watching all Rom-Coms available on your computer.


Expectation: I’m going to write good and meaningful content for my blog and schedule it for the next one month. Super productive day!

Reality: Watching ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ movie and similar videos… (You know what I mean). Still a day well spent! ((Blogger’s note: I laughed so much while writing this and also while doing the proof-reading that I peed in my pants! I don’t know why, but found this pointer very funny for some strange reason!!!))


Expectation: I am going to pamper myself today and be all clean and smell like a bottle of moisturizer.

Reality: Wearing a Pyajama and hair unwashed for two days straight. Because I love myself the way I am.


Expectation: Preparing an exotic meal at home by me and for myself.

Reality: Ordering pizza and Chinese takeaway. (Wild Love)


Well guys, these were just 5 Expectations vs. Reality, I am sure there are many more in this category out there. Let me know by commenting below – your version of ‘Expectation VS Reality: Singles on Valentine’s Day’. Also, please suggest topics that you would expect me to write.

P.S. I am sorry; I couldn’t post this blog post earlier today. I was out all day and was really busy and tired and was supposed to seep by 11 PM IST. However, I am proud of myself that I stretched yet again and wrote and didn’t miss a day till now this year. I have skipped Friday and this post will come out on Saturday in India, but it is still before sunrise!!! Please forgive me people!!!


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Ashmita Chatterjee is a Creative Writer/Blogger from Mumbai. She is an Enthusiast, Straight Forward girl who has found joy in Writing Blogs. Ashmita is a Loud Creator of Amazing Blogs, Short Stories and Erotica at Chaoticsoulzzz! She started her blog in 2011. When Ashmita is not being very busy, she can be found Writing, Reading, Eating, or Recklessly Travelling with her loved ones. She is known by the name of @chaoticsoulzzz on her Twitter and Instagram.

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