I love eager men. Let that be my guy, my crush or my brother. Well today is no post about my Lover(s). It’s about my brother. Why??? It’s Bhai–Phota, a day other than Raksha Bandhan where brothers are treated royally. My dadu has made something as a family tradition. It is: ‘No matter what the real tradition is, on every Raksha Bandhan and Bhai-phota, the sisters will get gifts and so will the brothers.’ So now it’s a family tradition, where I and my brother have to gift each other. No gender discrimination as they say…


Technically, it’s a new day and I am supposed to wake up and get ready and do Phota to my brother, but in reality, I came from work just an hour ago, I guess. And I am now going to get ready and then wake my brother up and then do Phota to him and exchange gifts. He gave me standing instructions: “Didi, please for God’s Sake, don’t buy me a T-shirt, jeans, mug, chocolates or any other thing that you think I would like. Please give me the cash that you were about to spend. I will do the same…” I had to agree with what he said and we have decided to exchange cash. Obviously I am not going to get as much as I am planning to give him ((Didi ka Pyaar))

There is something that we say while doing the phota, I always forget it and my mom reminds me every year. This year would be no different. I can see Kaju Katli in my kitchen and also a big box of Rosogulla. The mother and son have spent lots of money this year. No wonder, these people don’t miss me during festivals…


Well I have actually started this new game with my brother; it’s called ‘love-to-see-you-so-eager-Bhai’… I start saying something and then just stop and he gets super hyper and eager and literally runs behind me to tell him the other half. I love this attention game a lot.

So now I will go and wake my brother and irritate him a lot, because I am sleepy and I need entertainment! What are brothers for!


Happy ‘Bhai –phota’ to every one!





Written by Chaotic Soul

Ashmita Chatterjee is a Creative Writer/Blogger from Mumbai. She is an Enthusiast, Straight Forward girl who has found joy in Writing Blogs. Ashmita is a Loud Creator of Amazing Blogs, Short Stories and Erotica at Chaoticsoulzzz! She started her blog in 2011. When Ashmita is not being very busy, she can be found Writing, Reading, Eating, or Recklessly Travelling with her loved ones. She is known by the name of @chaoticsoulzzz on her Twitter and Instagram.

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