Is this what i want?

Someone asked me to blog on the topic that is the “what kind of guy I would like to date?” well this is one complicated thing… not only because I don’t know what kind of guy I want to date but also because I actually don’t know what does the concept of dating means?

Well so I would mould the topic a bit by calling it as “the kind of guy I would fall in love with…” sounds better??? Well I had a BIG and HUMONGOUS list of quality that i would see in a guy… but then I thought that am I as good as the dream guy I dream for? Well how does that matter??? All that matter is LOVE!!!

Well for once if I just keep LOVE aside then I don’t know what I would need in a guy… hmmm Mr. you have put me in a mess… I can’t think of anything….. Well then I’ll go ahead and think about it…

Well I know me writing such a blog is a bit bizarre… but it is something that someone asked me to do… so cant just deny the request… so DATE!!! Well yes!!! I do have the perfect picture of how I want my perfect DATE to be but the GUY I would DATE is like a big question!!!

So what kind of guy do I want to date? Hmmm well he should be the loving one… looks are something I really don’t care for, because I frankly believe that beauty is something that is there today but there’s no guarantee of tomorrow… beauty fades away with age…

So the first thing I would look in a person is the LOVING nature of his… loving nature doesn’t mean the love he would show for me but for the other things… the love he has for his parents, his family, his friends and most importantly his WORK… a person who loves his work would certainly love a girl…

Now the second thing is RESPECT… like love, respect is equally important. A person should have respect for everything…

Well all the above said things are too bookish maybe… well I just dream for a guy who would understand me. Who would love my family as his, who would respect my family as his… and more than anything he should accept me as I am…

There are many things about me that the guy has to sit and listen to… No guy would like listen to a girl’s problem; but yes I wish the guy whom I date will listen to the things that I need to tell him before we are in a relationship… there are many things that I need to discuss…

Every person has a PAST, so do I!!! but my PAST is not related to me but a gigantic part of me… life has never been easy for me and there are many things that have happened in my life that I need to discuss with the guy I date…

I believe in TRUTH… truth is something that is the base of any relation… and dating someone or being in LOVE with someone I like the one of the biggest thing in a person’s life…

Well maybe I am wrong but for me saying each and everything about your past is a compulsion… and when I say the every bit of my past to the guy I would expect him to do the same…

Also when I earlier mentioned that I would expect him to respect and love my family that is what I would do… but there should be a mutual understanding between both the people… I love my work and my friends apart from my family…

I am quite HEALTHY and not the prettiest of all so I need the guy to accept me as I am… I can sometimes be the child while sometimes be the adult one… I can sometimes laugh like a hooligan while sometimes cry like a baby… I might sleep while watching a movie or just keep on talking when I am bored… I can be on the SILENT MODE at times, I mean not talk at all and sometimes talk and talk and talk…

Well that is me!!! He should accept me as I am and I give my word that I would accept him as he is!!!

Well apart from all the above things said there is just one more thing about the guy I date should have that is his eyes… he should stare at me even from the across the room making me feel that butterfly in the stomach… we should be with each other when the other requires us… we should be with the other when they’re sad and need us…

His eyes should just make me feel tenable and it should have the love that would make me feel shy…

Well I think I said a lot but in short I just want to date a guy who would be a bit understanding and should make me feel protected with his gestures… well I really don’t know what I have written and is this the answer of the question that the GUY asked me… but anyways I felt good after writing this…

The best thing about this GUY who asked me to write a blog is this that because of him I start thinking about things I have never thought of, never got time to think of and just because of him I can give some time to myself too maybe just for 10minutes or so but yesss… thanks a lot….

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